Friday, April 17, 2009

Day 2 and Some Facts For You!

I slept through the entire night last night for the first time in quite some time - usually I wake up with my shoulder killing me and pop more pain pills. I guess the combination of the pain pills and all the other drugs from the day knocked me out cold from about 11 to 5:30. This was a good thing and a bad thing. I try and stay on schedule with the antinausea meds round the clock so the nausea doesn't sneak in on me because, yes, you can get sick right after getting your chemo but you're not in the clear for a few days. From what I gather, you have about 3 days of feeling bad before you feel better, and anything that I can do to keep from feeling bad over the next few days, I'm going to do it. At 5:30 I popped my pills and then I popped a few more around 11:30 and so far I'm doing alright. I feel like I'm on the brink of being sick, but I think as long as I keep on the meds and on the hydration, I'll be alright. I've slept the majority of the day away, only waking up when Warner came home for lunch and for a little bit when I take more drugs. And obviously now. I've started looking at chemo scarves, because in this blasted New Orleans summer sun, my head is going to FRY! I've found some really cute, kind of expensive ones so I'm still looking for now. I emailed my friend Haley, who lives in some place that probably doesn't exist except for her mind (just kidding, she lives in the land of far far away and EVERYONE knows that place exists) since she went through the same chemo I'm getting. She gave me some good advice as to what she went through. She started losing her hair right around 2 weeks, so we'll see how I make out with that. So, it's really nice to have her as a reference. Anyway, there's not really much more going on around here. Just doing the cancer thing again.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

I don't know you personally but have followed your blog since reading your comments on the oral cancer foundation forum. I don't know if you tire of hearing how inspirational your positive attitude and fighting spirit are (I can't imagine anyone would tire of it but you never know)... but the courage, aplomb and humor with which you approach the immense challenges you've been handed is astounding and very, very cool.

And your non-cancer entries are engaging and fun and warm, as well.

Back to the icky, unfair cancer part -- for what it's worth, a complete stranger up north is totally in your corner.

Cindy mcLean said...

It is a beautiful day in NW Arkansas! It was in the upper 60's and breezy. Supposed to be around 80 next week. Not looking forward to the hot sun. Doesn't it get humid where you are? Glad you are staying ahead of the nausea thing with the meds. Praying that you have an awesome weekend. Keep your spirits up! Give the boys a pat on the head!HUGS FROM ARKANSAS :)

gordon said...

all i want to do is get angry, cuss, and throw a fit over what you are going through.... then i read your words and i see how stupid that reaction is, and yet i still don't know what to do. We love you both and our hearts hurt for you both, and both of you are teaching us what strength and honor really mean, for that we praise God,and for your trials we continue to pray to Him

Brad and Gina Moreman said...

I'm the first to leave a comment - I'm the first to leave a comment!! This never happens...

What can I say other than I am praying for you and you two are always on my mind. Greenwood, MS, loves you and hopes the tongue junk leaves the lungs quickly and disappears for GOOD.

Anonymous said...

Hi Stephanie and Warner. Just wanted to let you know that our family is thinking of you guys and praying for you. My kids ask how you are doing often. Looking forward to seeing pictures of what scarves you come up with. I know you'll look cute! You always do.

Nancy Jackson

Tammy Baine said...

Stephanie, I live in Greenwood, MS and am friends with Brad and Gina Moreman. My daughter, Stephanie, reads your blog daily. I just want you to know that I am praying for you and Warner. I did not realize that you lived in New Orleans and I was there a few weeks ago for the Beth Moore Conference and could not get you off my mind. I prayed diligently for you while at the conference. I continue to pray for you everyday. Your spirit amazes me. I am much older than you and reading your blog, you seem so much wiser and mature than me.

shay said...

I will check with our local cancer center...I know they give some scarves away :O)
I am glad you have a goof reference...just like I did!

Take Care

XOXO

Anonymous said...

Hey! Surprised to see you were home today - don't know why, just thought you would be at work....but how wonderful - you were able to sleep last night and today!!!! WOW!!! That is just what you need - to sleep and restore! Again, I thank you for the blogs Steph, it really helps to sort of get an understanding (yes, skewed!) of what you are dealing with - along with warner! As you should know you are in our prayers......as is Warner - God is good and it may be so very very difficult at times to realize this but HE will surprise you!!!!! Steph, we love you so much - you have only been married 2 3/4 years but we know you are truly a gift from God in Warner's life - THANK YOU!!!!!! Many more great nights of restorative rest........hugs to you and your little boys: Warner, Ruekie, and Edgar! Enjoy your weekend....will you see your Fam???????

Anonymous said...

Hi Stephanie,
Just letting you know I am thinking about you and praying for you. You will look wonderful in scarves. We love you, Mrs. Robin

Anonymous said...

I'd like to echo what the first commentor said. I too find your blog inspirational and entertaining and wish you the best in this latest challenge. Keep your chin up.

Anonymous said...

Ok, just want you both to know that Gordon voiced our feelings perfectly!!! We love you! Uncle Bobby and Barney

Paula said...

Can't wait to come home and get you some crazy earrings!

Anonymous said...

Okay... I'm reading all the commments and I keep seeing mine show up! I promise I wasn't trying to win the award for most entries. How embarrassing! I simply kept trying to leave comments and they never would show up. I guess I'll wait a little while longer next time. I guess patience isn't my thing! Sorry!!
Nancy Jackson - AGAIN! :)

christine said...

Stephanie--oh my goodness. I have been praying and will be praying more specifically now. Thanks for all the info. Keep the posts coming. You are so much fun to read, but if you ever want to just vent and cry and rant, we're fine with that, too. :) Surely you could get some scarf company to sponsor your blog and get free stuff. How does pioneer woman do it?!!

Glenna said...

Hi Stephanie,
I'm praying for you, and Warner (especially God's healing on his burns) and your families as you all again experience a difficult time. You beat this thing once, you'll beat it again. You truly are an inspiration to me. You've gone through a lot for one so young and your humor and wit and positive attitude are amazing. God bless you all.

Anonymous said...

All of us are praying for your speedy recovery and want you to know we read your blog almost everyday. Stephanie, what an inspiration you are and always so upbeat about everything. You are also a great writer(very witty) and fun to read. Don't forget when you get a chemo break you, Warner and the dogs should go to our N.C.house-just let us know.We love you both-Aunt Anne,Uncle Hal Rip,Merrill,Ashley and their better halves-XXXXXOOOOOO

Anonymous said...

Hey Nancy Jackson!!!!! This is W's Mom........the reason your comments don't pop up instantly like they used to is because they need to read them before they are REALLY posted.....there is a little yellow line at the top of your screen, that you might not have noticed - it is real small! I am sure those kids love hearing from you no matter how many times they read the same thing!!!!! Get some rest kiddos! Love SKSB

Anonymous said...

Check out etsy.com for head scarfs, they have some really cute (and cheap!) ones. And don't forget your smile is your best accessory!

Unknown said...

Hey Stephanie and Warner! We have been following your blog for quite a few months and finally had to comment on this most recent bout of nasty cancer! We hope that the chemo effects will be minimal, not affecting your optimistic attitude and engaging sense of humor. You are a model for all of us to follow! Our prayers are with you. Hugs!

Alicia and Dale Pangman
Friends of Warner's family from AF days